November 14, 2022 Just thought I’d write a short post as it’s been three weeks since my last one. We all got through the November 5 anniversary of Jeff’s death. I was irritable this time around and I knew it. Did a lot of apologizing and leaned more on God. When the death is as traumatic as Jeff’s was, it just makes that day’s memories so much harder. Even nine years later, people still say stupid things. It doesn’t matter how old the child was when they died, whether pre-born, 2 years old, a teenager, or 34 years old as was my son. Losing an adult child to death is a whole other category. Don’t tell me, “Well, at least you had him for 34…
And now for my next act…
October 25, 2022 (This is a long post… there are pictures near the end.) I’ve been busy, busy, busy. Doing lotsa stuff. Handling lotsa stuff. Troubled about lotsa stuff. Lotsa stuff. You get the picture. And of course, it’s that time of year… you know, the yearly anniversary of my son’s death is coming up… and other things. Some years are better than others. Plus, I usually disappear online for November and December. We’ll see how it goes this time around. Good medicine The doctor (she’s actually an FNP-C, but doctor is easier to say) had prescribed a medicine for my tremors back in May. I’ve been living with tremors since my early 40s which have been gradually worsening over the years. The past couple…
Meanwhile, from the rest of September…
October 7, 2022 September was a hard month. If you read my three previous posts, you know my sweet mom-in-law – who was always my biggest prayer warrior – died. And secondly, my chronic kidney disease (CKD) and lowered liver function did a smack-down on me. I’m beginning to feel better and getting my strength back. The state fair was September 9-18. Jerry and I went on free day. We only wander through exhibits… and people-watch when we stop to rest. We stay completely away from the Midway, mostly because it’s too loud for us in our old age (haha) and the electrical cables all over the place are not wheelchair friendly. I took the usual photos, mostly of elementary school mixed media art for…
Tired
September 26, 2022 I’ve been dive-bombed by a couple of my health issues … extremely tired, mentally and physically. And other things going on make me just as tired. I rely on the Lord … but I still have to live through it. Give me a few days. I’m sure I’ll be feeling better soon. This blog uses COMMENT MODERATION. Some comment moderation is automatic with certain words and data strings effecting an immediate ban – they will never even be seen by me or other readers or commenters. I will not tolerate nor give an audience to threats or rude comments. Please allow several hours to a couple days (sometimes longer, because hey, I don’t live my life online) for your comment to be…
Mom’s obituary
September 13, 2022 Some of you may have seen my previous post about “Mom” (my mother-in-law) passing away … her obituary is below. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Juanita J. Carmichael February 12, 1933 – September 11, 2022 Juanita Jane Carmichael, 89, went to her heavenly home Sunday, September 11, 2022, at Diversicare of Hutchinson. She was born February 12, 1933, in Montezuma, KS, to Amos Robert and Hazel Nadine (French) Jantz. Juanita graduated from Hutchinson High School in 1951, and Salt City Business College. She worked as a lead in the seat installation department for Collins Industries. Juanita’s faith and family were vital in her life. She had no time for hobbies, as Juanita was always taking care of her family and friends with unconditional love….
In the arms of Jesus
September 11, 2022 My mother-in-law – Jerry’s stepmom – passed away peacefully this morning at 7:57 a.m. There was a look of great joy on her face as Jesus welcomed her home. Juanita Jane (Jantz) (Borntrager) Carmichael, 1933-2022 (age 89). Rest in peace, Mom. 💕 🙏🏻 This blog uses COMMENT MODERATION. Some comment moderation is automatic with certain words and data strings effecting an immediate ban – they will never even be seen by me or other readers or commenters. I will not tolerate nor give an audience to threats or rude comments. Please allow several hours to a couple days (sometimes longer, because hey, I don’t live my life online) for your comment to be approved. Also, I do not always have time –…